Your first dance as a married couple is one of the most memorable moments of your wedding day. It’s a chance to share a piece of your love story with your guests and set the tone for the celebration ahead. With so many songs out there though, how do you choose the perfect one?
Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered with some tips to make this decision as smooth as your dance moves!
1. Reflect on Your Relationship
Think about the moments that define your relationship. Is there a song that played during your first date, your engagement, or a special trip? Choosing a song that has personal meaning will make your first dance even more emotional and memorable. If you don't have 'your song' don't let that deter you. If that's the case, find something that resonates with you both.
2. Consider the Lyrics
Pay attention to the lyrics. While a song might have a beautiful melody, it’s essential to make sure the words align with your love story and the tone of your wedding. Listen carefully to ensure the message of the song is something you want to share on your special day.
3. Match Your Dance Style
Are you planning to wow your guests with a high-energy choreographed routine or keep it simple with a classic slow dance? The style of dance you’re envisioning can help you narrow down your song choices. For example:
Romantic and timeless: Songs like “At Last” by Etta James or “Can’t Help Falling in Love” by Elvis Presley.
Fun and upbeat: Try “You Make My Dreams” by Hall & Oates or “Shut Up and Dance” by Walk the Moon.
Latin flair: Consider “Bésame Mucho” or “Sway.”
4. Think About Length
Most first dance songs range from 2-4 minutes. If the song you love is longer, you can work with your dance instructor, DJ or band to cut it down to a manageable length. This ensures that you don't feel overwhelmed and that your guests stay engaged.
5. Get Inspired with Playlists
If you’re still unsure, browsing curated playlists can be a fantastic way to discover songs that resonate with you. To make it easier, we’ve created the Wedding Dance Creations Playlist filled with first dance inspiration on both Spotify and YouTube.
6. Test It Out
Before you finalise your choice or even before you right off a song you love because you think it's too fast or too slow, ask your wedding dance instructor. They have so much knowledge and would be able to tell you if it works and they would have a few tricks up their sleeves to make it feel perfect, if you really love it.
7. Trust Your Instincts
At the end of the day, your first dance song should reflect your unique love story. Don’t feel pressured to choose something trendy or traditional if it doesn’t feel right for you. Trust your instincts and pick a song that makes your hearts sing.
Ready to Dance?
Once you’ve chosen your song, consider working with a professional to create a custom routine. At Wedding Dance Creations, we specialise in crafting first-dance experiences that will leave you and your guests with unforgettable memories.
Remember, your first dance is all about celebrating your love. With the right song and a little preparation, it will be a moment you’ll treasure forever. Happy dancing!
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